A baby is pushed down a dirt street in Kinshasa, Congo. On the left, there is a pile of trash and a tire. In the distance are many cars and taxis. A daily walk is part of life here as a lonely stay at home mom in a foreign country. It's been a challenging and isolating job.

Why Being a Lonely Stay at Home Mom in a Foreign Country is the Hardest Job

Living abroad can sound like a dream, and I know I idealized it for many years before we made this move. The highs are what you’d imagine- immersing yourself in a new culture, meeting incredible people, learning a new language, and exploring new places. But for stay-at-home parents, especially those with young children, the experience…

A burned out car is on the side of the road in Kinshasa, DRC. It is next to a tall blue metal fence and a person walks by with a basket of food on their head. This encapsulates the realities of Kinshasa poverty

Kinshasa Poverty: Bearing Witness to the City’s Struggles and Strengths

I’ve been struggling emotionally lately, as living in Kinshasa, Congo has been truly mind boggling. For moments, I’ll forget I’m living in one of the world’s poorest countries and then I’ll step outside to see the most dire poverty I’ve ever witnessed. I saw an IG post that said, “I am not sure my tiny…

A water scorpion floats by in a pool in Kinshasa, DRC.

Life in The Congo: Reflections on Month One

Have you ever wondered what life is like in a place so different from your upbringing that everyday excursions feel unexpected and bizarre? Living in Kinshasa, Democratic Republic of Congo, is exactly that—a whirlwind of frustrations, quirks, and moments that make you confused, cry, laugh, or just want to scream. Whether you’re curious about our…

A boy in a t-shirt and red life vest points out into the distance. He is riding on a blue boat on a Congo River Cruise.
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Congo River Cruise: A Family Adventure in Kinshasa

Recently, we decided to take a family day trip on a Congo River cruise. We were excited to see the city from a different perspective and maybe spot a crocodile or two. Much like our experience here in the Congo so far, it turned out to be a much different experience than expected. Traveling as…

Two young kids looking out of a hotel window in Kinshasa, Democratic Republic of the Congo
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Moving Overseas With Kids: New Routines, Isolation & Language Barriers

Moving to the Democratic Republic of the Congo with our two young children has been a big move for our family. As we planned moving overseas with kids, we anticipated the excitement of new experiences and the chance to immerse ourselves in a new country and culture. But our first two weeks in Kinshasa have…

A bustling street scene featuring a man walking past a massive stack of yellow jerry cans arranged in a semi-circular shape on a makeshift cart, parked between two worn cars. The chaotic urban environment, with scattered debris and a cloudy sky, captures a slice of everyday life in Kinshasa, hinting at the unique adventures of world travel with kids and the vibrant culture they can experience

Travel the World With Kids: First Impressions of Congo from a 5 Year Old

After months of preparation to travel the world with kids, countless packing lists, and some last-minute suitcase additions, we finally arrived in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Having heard warnings about long delays, passport control challenges, and luggage mishaps, we braced ourselves for a rough entry. But, against all odds, our arrival went smoother than…

Young boy relaxing on a pile of suitcases and travel bags outdoors, with various luggage items, including a blue duffle bag and a stroller, in front of a building entrance. Perfect depiction of family travel challenges and packing for kids.

Moving Overseas to the Congo: How We Managed 18 Suitcases

Moving overseas with a young family is no small feat. We recently packed up our lives in Virginia and headed to the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) with two little ones. For months, we strategized, packed, and re-packed, yet somehow, on the morning of our departure, we found ourselves scrambling to buy *two* last-minute suitcases…

A young boy sits in a closet full of food in preparation to move to Africa with kids.

Moving Overseas: Why We Have a Year’s Worth of Food in A Closet

No, we are not doomsday preppers and we’re not hoarders. Yet, we find ourselves with a closet that looks more like a Costco aisle filled food than your everyday clothes closet. Why you ask? As part of D’s job and moving overseas to the Democratic Republic of the Congo , we get a shipment of…