A baby is pushed down a dirt street in Kinshasa, Congo. On the left, there is a pile of trash and a tire. In the distance are many cars and taxis. A daily walk is part of life here as a lonely stay at home mom in a foreign country. It's been a challenging and isolating job.

Why Being a Lonely Stay at Home Mom in a Foreign Country is the Hardest Job

Living abroad can sound like a dream, and I know I idealized it for many years before we made this move. The highs are what you’d imagine- immersing yourself in a new culture, meeting incredible people, learning a new language, and exploring new places. But for stay-at-home parents, especially those with young children, the experience…

A burned out car is on the side of the road in Kinshasa, DRC. It is next to a tall blue metal fence and a person walks by with a basket of food on their head. This encapsulates the realities of Kinshasa poverty

Kinshasa Poverty: Bearing Witness to the City’s Struggles and Strengths

I’ve been struggling emotionally lately, as living in Kinshasa, Congo has been truly mind boggling. For moments, I’ll forget I’m living in one of the world’s poorest countries and then I’ll step outside to see the most dire poverty I’ve ever witnessed. I saw an IG post that said, “I am not sure my tiny…

A water scorpion floats by in a pool in Kinshasa, DRC.

Life in The Congo: Reflections on Month One

Have you ever wondered what life is like in a place so different from your upbringing that everyday excursions feel unexpected and bizarre? Living in Kinshasa, Democratic Republic of Congo, is exactly that—a whirlwind of frustrations, quirks, and moments that make you confused, cry, laugh, or just want to scream. Whether you’re curious about our…

Two young kids looking out of a hotel window in Kinshasa, Democratic Republic of the Congo
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Moving Overseas With Kids: New Routines, Isolation & Language Barriers

Moving to the Democratic Republic of the Congo with our two young children has been a big move for our family. As we planned moving overseas with kids, we anticipated the excitement of new experiences and the chance to immerse ourselves in a new country and culture. But our first two weeks in Kinshasa have…

A young child in a green shirt pushes a kid sized shopping cart through a candy aisle in Kinshasa.
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Travel Africa With Kids: A 3-Hour Traffic Nightmare

Kinshasa is a city full of energy, culture, and stories, and we’re here to share the adventures, connections, and moments of challenges and joy as we travel Africa with kids. Below is a story of our first outing in Kinshasa as we get adjusted to our new city. When we set out for our first…

Young boy relaxing on a pile of suitcases and travel bags outdoors, with various luggage items, including a blue duffle bag and a stroller, in front of a building entrance. Perfect depiction of family travel challenges and packing for kids.
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Moving Overseas to the Congo: How We Managed 18 Suitcases

Moving overseas with a young family is no small feat. We recently packed up our lives in Virginia and headed to the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) with two little ones. For months, we strategized, packed, and re-packed, yet somehow, on the morning of our departure, we found ourselves scrambling to buy *two* last-minute suitcases…