Building Cultural Connections with Kids: 10 Questions to Spark Curiosity
As parents, we want to nurture children who are curious, empathetic, and engaged with the world around them. Every environment offers opportunities for cultural connections, whether you’re stuck in traffic in Kinshasa, strolling through a historic neighborhood in Budapest, or simply walking to the park in your hometown.
Young children are naturally curious and observant, making them excellent learners about the world and the people in it. But how do we turn their questions (“Why is that food so spicy?” “Why do they wear that outfit?” “Why do they look different than me?”) into meaningful conversations that deepen their understanding and appreciation of different cultures?
As an early learning expert and parent, I’ve found that the key is simple: asking the right questions. Here are 10 open-ended prompts to use with your children—whether you’re traveling or staying close to home—that will help you connect with them while encouraging them to connect with their world and community.
1. What do you notice?
This simple question, open ended question invites your child to observe their surroundings. Whether it’s the colors of the buildings, the music playing, or the way people greet each other, you’ll be amazed by what they notice when prompted to look closely.
2. What do you think is the most important value in this culture?
Ask your child to think about the values they observe in the community—whether it’s respect for elders, hospitality, or a strong connection to nature. This can lead to a conversation about how values shape a society.
3. What is something you saw today that you’d like to try?
This question allows your child to think about how they might engage with new cultural experiences, whether it’s tasting a new food, learning a dance, or trying out a local craft.
4. How does this remind you of home?
Finding connections between the familiar and unfamiliar helps children process new experiences. This question fosters a sense of belonging wherever you are while recognizing shared human experiences.
5. What would you tell a friend about this place?
Encouraging your child to summarize what they’ve experienced helps them solidify their learning. It also emphasizes that their perspective is valuable and worth sharing. You may be surprised about what your child shares.
6. What’s one thing you’re curious to learn more about?
This keeps the spirit of inquiry alive and gives you opportunities to follow up, whether through books, conversations with locals, or further exploration.
7. How might someone here see the world differently than we do?
Prompting kids to think about how cultural experiences influence the way people view the world can help them develop empathy and perspective. It’s a great way to talk about diversity and how our unique backgrounds influence our thoughts and actions.
8. If you were to spend a day with a local family, what do you think your day would look like?
This question invites your child to imagine themselves as part of the local community, thinking about daily routines, meals, and interactions that differ from their own.
9. What do you think someone your age might do here for fun?
Encourage your child to consider life from the perspective of local children. This not only builds empathy but can also inspire play-based connections.
10. What was hard about today?
Travel and new experiences often come with challenges, even for young children. Reflecting on these moments helps them develop resilience and an understanding that discomfort can lead to growth. Learn more about building resilience.
Practical Tips for Using These Questions
- Adapt to their level: Younger children may need simpler questions or more concrete examples, while older kids can handle abstract ideas.
- Lead by example: Share your own observations or answers to these questions to model curiosity and openness.
- Follow up with actions: If your child expresses interest in learning more, take the next step—whether it’s visiting a museum, talking to someone local, or finding a relevant book or video.
- Do not shame: In these discussions, your child may say somethings that you may perceive as rude or socially unacceptable. Try to respond with an open mind and dig deeper about your child’s perspective. For instance, when we first moved to Kinshasa, our 5 year old often said everything looked “run down” My first thought was, wow, that’s not the kindest thing to say, but we kept talking about what run down means to him and what specifically he noticed that looks different from what he is used to. I asked questions such as: Why do you think it looks run down? I wonder how it got to be that way? Do you think kids your age living here would describe it in the same way? It was the perfect opportunity to talk about privilege and cultural differences in an age appropriate way.
Cultural Connections: Linking Your Child to Their World & Community
The beauty of these questions is that they don’t require you to travel to a new destination. You can ask them anywhere—at your local farmer’s market, at cultural events, or even while reading a book about another country.
By asking thoughtful, open-ended questions, you’re helping your child develop a mindset of curiosity and respect. These habits, formed in early childhood, will serve them well as they grow into compassionate global citizens who value both their roots and the diversity of the world around them.
Where will your next cultural connection take you and your family? Start asking these cultural connection questions, and see where the journey leads!
Are there any go-to questions you’ve found helpful for sparking cultural conversations with your children? Share them in the comments—I’d love to hear your ideas!
